Monday, May 30, 2011

Art group success

Success and two happy children...and a happy Mummy.
I've been wanting to get a group of children together at our house (well just a gathering really) around the same age as our kids to try and ease the change from 4 years old to 5 years old....and the oh my goodness all my friends are heading to school.
It was really good.

I've been wanting to do some art work and see if we and encourage some creativity with paint. I felt it was really helpful with this really small group and all the ages and different stages of understanding. My daughter really wanted to paint a rainbow and had three goes at it before leaving it and moving on to something else. She'll come back ;-) she's a bit of a perfectionist like her parents I think.

I'll put in some photos soon...just have lots to do in so little time.

Monday, May 23, 2011

The unattainable ideal

I have been reading Guerrilla Learning...I am finding it a bit hard at the moment possibly because of sick children but possibly because I find some of the ideas a bit hard to comprehend at the moment and probably need to do a bit more reading.

But I've still really enjoyed this part here....see below

Whatever the Reasons, Schools Are the Way They Are and We Can Stop Pretending They're Otherwise

Perhaps no one deliberately aimed to design schools that would leave most of the people in them -teachers as well as children - uninspired, cynical, and defeated. Perhaps our schools are only victims of the trap into which all human institutions, as mythologist Joseph Campbell has pointed out, fall prey: They evolve into systems with their own purposes and ultimately come to exist for the preservation of their own survival, rather than to serve the human beings whose lives they were originally designed to enhance.

Thus government officials wind up working for the expansion of their departments, instead of for the improvement of public life; healthcare systems shift paradoxically toward conditions hostile to health; and religious institutions can grow, in time, to be the least likely places on earth one might experience the divine.

Systems by their nature are unfeeling, rigid, and abstract. They take what is alive and turn it into machinery, sacrificing vitality for efficiency. One function of mythology, said Campbell, is to help people transform and transcend outmoded systems, which have inevitably grown self-serving and gained a stranglehold on the life of the community

No matter what caused our schools to be the way they are, if one looks honestly and openly at them-now and in the past-cynicism and defeat is what one sees. But often we don't look honestly and openly. As parents, as teachers, as grown-up children ourselves, we often ignore our real-world experience of schools in favour of a shared cultural fiction about how school works. We've been subtly indoctrinated into a fable that somewhere there exists a peaceful, orderly classroom, full of happy, diligent children, where the strict but loving teacher inspires young minds to love learning and to develop discipline. But this classroom almost never appears here and now. Where is this ideal classroom? It is down the hall. No.... Then it must be in another school, across town, or across the country Wait, that was several years ago. Oh, you went to that school? It wasn't like that, after all? Did this ideal school exist in the 1950s, or was it in the late nineteenth century?

If our children would just buckle down, implies the cultural myth, or parents were more involved, or teachers were better trained, or the newest ideas and techniques were implemented, or we returned to the basic techniques of the past, our classrooms would work too.

Maybe some people experienced such a classroom in their youth. Or maybe some kids are in one right now. For many, however, the ideal-school myth distracts us from noticing the actual conditions of this school, these children, the reality in which we live. Like unattainable ideals about family life, this ideal is not inspiring but oppressive. It doesn't tell us how to be the way these ideal people are; it just tells us that the way we are is wrong. The unattainable ideal distracts us with an inappropriate question: What's wrong? What's wrong with my kids? What's wrong with this classroom? This school? This teacher? Kids these days? The country? Me?

I find this last part so true in so many areas. I used to blog about children/babies and their sleep needs. When I first started blogging I had no idea how much our culture had developed these ideas and how much we tried to fill them. The idea that children well Babies sleep through the night.

And now children and their learning or the type of school which we see as ideal. So nothing is wrong with our children they are just children. Some learn what you want to learn NOW and some do not. Some learn how you want them to learn and some do not.

It is not the school, or the teacher or the child which is not right .... its the ideal...the dream which someone has started and everyone tries so hard to aim for. Like getting a baby to sleep through the night....yes you can do it...you can make them "cry it out" and you can win...but what is the price that you have to pay...so many people do not look at that price or even think that there is a price because they feel that they have obtained the ideal/perceived normal where in fact we are so far from it.

But baby and sleep is a touchy issue...then so is school...maybe both need some looking into.

Fulfilling our Certificate of Exemption outlines in health

Its amazing when you start writing out what you dream/wish for your children and the things you'd like them to understand...they start to come true. Law of Attraction ;-)

As part of our Certificate of Exemption we have to outline what we would do for many areas...one is...

Health and Well-Being

Our goal for our daughter is that she understands the necessity of a healthy body, a healthy mind, and to continue to care for her body’s needs. There are many opportunities to learn about health in a home environment, and many ways for her to be physically active.

This time of illness has been a time of reflection for me. I've been worried that we've not been doing any 'learning'...a bit silly really as even while they are flat on their backs their little brains are still going (unless asleep...which has not been often enough for me).

But it also a time for taking note of our body and its needs... something of which I think we have been failing to do in this day and age.

We are moving too fast, we are doing so much, we are keeping up with the Jones so to speak. We've got to be in the city to have a good job, we've got to have a good job to pay for the house in the city....in the right area. Both parents have to work to pay for that....all their children have to pay for it too. So many things tangle up into this reasoning.

But often we keep going and going...and often we ask our children to keep going and going because we need to have that money. How many times have children been sent back to daycare still very sick because the parents do not have enough sick leave to keep them at home. The bugs spread and more children get sick and pass it on to their parents and they get sick but they keep going because they can't take anymore time off of work.

We can not stop. We have to keep doing as John Kabat-Zinn often talks about.... Human doings.

I would like to help my children take care of themselves by proper eating, sleeping, relaxing and when they do get sick taking the time to recover properly... because if we do that we will be more productive. We will be sick less. The work we do will be better because we will not be doing it with our brains half foggy with illness....AND we will not be passing on our sickness to others.

Learning about health is a BIG subject and I don't feel it is really even touched in schools...other than putting a happy face on a picture and talking about it. Empathy is one such quality that we need to learn in the home and from a very early age and good old 0-3 time frame.... and the poor old teachers (quoting Dave here) good luck to trying to teach the school bully about empathy when they have no ground work to begin with.

The class sizes also work against the teachers trying to get these parts of health across....but the topic is so large that well...lots to learn....good luck.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Another sick day


Here we are in another sick day.
Watching DVD's now as both children are very tired. My daughter has started pulling the story's apart.
Sleeping Beauty...."How can an owl be out and flying around during the day...and how can he fly with a cape over his wings?"
I didn't ask her how did the fairy's do their magic or the dragon or the.....ok ok.

We've also watched Tangled a few too many times in the last 24hours... "Look that horse is eating paper"

Aside from the cartoons we've been keeping up with our Dinosaur Unit Study and watched a Walking with Dinosaur's this morning. She was really worried that a flying one could not land and find a Mummy.
Some friends of my Nana gave her some kids books for us and my daughter found a few of the dinosaur in the pictures that we've already seen on the documentary.

At the moment I think we're all like sick families...grumpy and tired. I just can't wait till we're all back together. My Nana is up with us...she's great with our son

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Could Leonardo da Vinci come out of todays schools?

polymath: painter, sculptor, architect, musician, scientist, mathematician,
engineer, inventor, anatomist,geologist, cartographer, botanist and writer.
When we study in todays world we normally work in one area....are we aloud to 'dabble' in many areas? Are we aloud to dream? Are we aloud time to think? Create?

I think this post will need some more visits

Monday, May 16, 2011

Sick days while Unschooling

Oh wouldn't it be nice to have a sick day.
But as a Mother/parent you don't get one.
And the children don't get one when they are unschooling either ;-)

Both my children have some flu thing. Sadly my daughter started to show her symptoms on the day of my son's birthday party. Grumpy all morning wanting to be carried or have lots of hugs. As the time got on to the party she picked up and started to ask when our family were starting to arrive....then she crashed just on dinner time.

But the brain keeps going.
The questions still keep coming...even while my daughter was on the couch she was watching and listening and when able would add her 2c worth.
"No Nanma its a plant eating dinosaur" as my Mother talked about my son's birthday present.
"Mum what is that flashing light for on the computer?" its amazing what you see when your forced to sit still.

This morning we started Paper Mache over Balloons with both children coughing and sniffing. They really wanted to do it and I suppose the good side of being at home is you can do a little here and a little there.

I laugh a little as for our certificate of exception we are supposed to supply a timetable/curriculum/ (or the one we will go for) description or routines. So even on a 'sick day' we still learn....even on a weekend....even on a holiday....learning all the time.

Paper Mache over Balloons

This is a follow on from the Balloon fun we've had....see Unit Study in Balloons.
It seems to be a natural progression and sort of funny that in most cases we schooled people seem to feel that you have to show/lead/teach this as "how could they find this out on their own". Ah ha but if we did this would there be a connection in the child's mind and would it be remembered?


Our daughter while caring for her chickens was tearing up strips of paper to fill up their box (so the chickens can sleep in it). Naturally some balloon's were floating around as this was at the time of the balloon Unit Study. It had been raining and some paper got into the children's paddling pool. The balloon's got in the pool...then the paper started to get placed on the balloon's.
Both children covered their balloons with a little help from my Mother.
They were put aside to dry...and forgotten for a little while.

A few days later....my daughter picked up her creation and it fell apart (no glue...just water). She just shrugged and threw it all in the bin....was that it?

No
Yesterday "Mum I want to do some Paper Mache"...ah ha she's been thinking...."I think we'll put a little glue in the water".
I suggested we google it...and found

To make the Glue
Water
Flour

Mix together 1 part flour and 2 parts water

We used some balloons from our son's birthday party.....2 today!

So I was all excited and wanted to take photos to show you and the camera is flat...roll eyes...oh well
I walked out of the room to do some clean up and left the children to work it out themselves.
They did really well.
My daughter was asking what would the label for the flour jar have on it to start with "P" for "Plain Flour". She found it and got all the rest sorted.

She asked my son to mix while she poured the water. They had a loud discussion on how much water to add...she felt that the recipe was wrong and only wanted 2/3's he seeing there was still water left in the cup wanted to add it all....she turned her back for a few seconds and he won...she didn't notice ;-)

One thing I always remember with paper mache was it was always started but never finished. So we've started and there is only one layer...and they both got tired.

There maybe more to this post...but I'm not sure yet